Unify memberOf method signature in Criteria class

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Standardized the memberOf method in Criteria class to match the signature pattern of other methods.

Changed memberOf parameter order to ('field', 'value') like other Criteria methods. Previously it used (':parameter', 'alias.field') which was inconsistent.

Consistency across the Criteria API. Better developer experience when using QueryBuilder. Follows principle of least surprise.

Fully backward compatible.

Example:

use Doctrine\ORM\QueryBuilder;

$group = 1;

$qb = new QueryBuilder();
$qb
   ->from(User::class, 'u0')
    ->where($qb->expr->eq('name', 'Test'))
    // Old approach
    ->andWhere($qb->expr->memberOf(':group', 'u0.groups'))
    ->setParameter('group', $group)
    // New approach
    ->andWhere($qb->expr->memberOf('groups', $group))
;

Reopening: previous PR #11981 closed due to branch deletion