Add fallback for Bool verbose, and two-arg SciMLMessage Macro

[jClugstor]

Checklist

• Appropriate tests were added
• Any code changes were done in a way that does not break public API
• All documentation related to code changes were updated
• The new code follows the
  contributor guidelines, in particular the SciML Style Guide and
  COLPRAC.
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Additional context

Adds a fallback for when a verbose is Bool. Also adds a two-argument SciMLMessage macro that takes a Bool, if verb is true emit a warning with the message.

[jClugstor]

@ChrisRackauckas this would fix downstream tests for SciML/OrdinaryDiffEq.jl#2895 and also adds a (maybe not very useful) way to use the SciMLMessage macro.

I've tested it locally with current versions of LinearSolve and NonlinearSolve and the branch of OrdinaryDiffEq in that PR to make sure that no overhead was introduced, and that the SciMLLogging code is able to be compiled out.

Also made sure JET test_opt still works for LinearSolve.

using LinearSolve 

A = [1.0 0 0 0
    0 1 0 0
    0 0 1 0
    0 0 0 0]
b = rand(4)
prob = LinearProblem(A, b)

@test_opt solve(prob, LUFactorization(), verbose = SciMLLogging.None())
Test Passed

(Demo) pkg> st 
Status `~/Documents/Work/dev/VerbosityDemo/Demo/Project.toml`
  [7ed4a6bd] LinearSolve v3.46.1
  [e6f89c97] LoggingExtras v1.2.0
  [8913a72c] NonlinearSolve v4.12.0
  [1dea7af3] OrdinaryDiffEq v6.103.0 `~/Documents/Work/dev/OrdinaryDiffEq.jl`
  [6ad6398a] OrdinaryDiffEqBDF v1.11.0 `~/Documents/Work/dev/OrdinaryDiffEq.jl/lib/OrdinaryDiffEqBDF`
  [bbf590c4] OrdinaryDiffEqCore v1.37.0 `~/Documents/Work/dev/OrdinaryDiffEq.jl/lib/OrdinaryDiffEqCore`
  [127b3ac7] OrdinaryDiffEqNonlinearSolve v1.16.0 `~/Documents/Work/dev/OrdinaryDiffEq.jl/lib/OrdinaryDiffEqNonlinearSolve`
  [a6db7da4] SciMLLogging v1.4.0 `~/Documents/Work/dev/SciMLLogging.jl`
  [4536629a] OpenBLAS_jll v0.3.29+0