proxy: Upgrade h2 crate to v0.4.13+

[maxbrunet]

What is the issue?

We are seeing 2 issues:

• When using gRPC, many rpc error: code = ResourceExhausted desc = stream terminated by RST_STREAM with error code: ENHANCE_YOUR_CALM errors, this appears to be fixed by fix: adjust expiring reset stream limits hyperium/h2#858 (released in v0.4.12)
• When using regular HTTP2, streams entering a deadlock state over a connection, which also appears to have a fix fix: do not assign capacity for pending streams hyperium/h2#860 (released in v0.4.13)

How can it be reproduced?

• The reset issue is described in Downstream reports of increased go aways with "too_many_internal_resets" hyperium/h2#856
• The deadlock issue is described in this discussion http2: proxy does not open new connections when max concurrent streams is reached #14800

Logs, error output, etc

• Reset issue

  WARN ThreadId(01) h2::proto::streams::streams: locally-reset streams reached limit (1024)
  INFO ThreadId(01) linkerd_app_core::errors::respond: gRPC request failed error=http2 error error.sources=[connection error detected: detected excessive load generating behavior (b"too_many_internal_resets")]
  INFO ThreadId(01) linkerd_app_core::errors::respond: gRPC request failed error=client 192.168.1.3:50048: server: 192.168.1.12:8080: server 192.168.1.12:8080: service ourgrpcservice.ournamespace:80: http2 error error.sources=[server 192.168.1.12:8080: service ourgrpcservice.ournamespace:80: http2 error, http2 error, connection error detected: detected excessive load generating behavior (b"too_many_internal_resets")]
  

• Deadlock issue, please see http2: proxy does not open new connections when max concurrent streams is reached #14800

output of linkerd check -o short

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Environment

• Kubernetes Version: v1.33.5
• Cluster Environment: GKE
• Host OS: Google Container-Optimized OS
• Linkerd Version: edge-25.9.4

Possible solution

The proxy is currently built with h2 v0.4.11:

https://github.com/linkerd/linkerd2-proxy/blob/360eebac163b8c947bd28caae47ba99b12ff07e2/Cargo.lock#L841

Could the h2 crate be upgraded to v0.4.13+, please?

Additional context

No response

Would you like to work on fixing this bug?

maybe