refactor: improve ConcurrentReconciler integration with performance modules

- Integrate with updated NetworkDataCache, CircuitBreaker, and PriorityQueue
- Add comprehensive retry logic with exponential backoff
- Add pause/resume functionality for reconciliation control
- Extract magic numbers into RECONCILER_DEFAULTS constants
- Add proper disposal pattern with Symbol.asyncDispose support
- Add detailed metrics collection (processed, success rate, queue depth)
- Update index.ts exports for all performance modules

Author: DaMandal0rian